Happiness is not an illusion. Neither is hope. The easiest way is to observe the absurd and find a giggle instead of crying. Focus on transition, be flexible. Security is important but not crucial. Why do dogs like to hide behind skirts and tablecloths? Desire for information is fun sometimes, but remember, much of what is imparted is subjective. Above the horizon is blue grey, below is green brown. Why do we delight in rainbows?