The associative connections we share often seem perceptively fated. But fate is only how we interpret the emotional moment. We need to keep moving and reminding ourselves that the changes we seek, may be useful. Do you have faith? If nothing else, we need to trust we are learning what the universe or collective unconscious is putting in our way.
What makes you happy? The enjoyment of beauty, fantasy, and the warmth of the Sun are my particular favorites. The nature of comparing and polarizing is a habit that seems to be incorporated in our human nature. Seeing someone else’s taste or philosophy as less than one’s own is futile. Enjoy the osmosis of merging with shared perceptions.